"I STOPPED THINKING THE WAY OTHER PEOPLE THINK A LONG TIME AGO.

YOU GOTTA THINK LIKE YOU THINK."

- ROCKY BALBOA

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the apology you've all been waiting for

Some people want me to apologize for how I’ve lived my Christian life. Here’s my answer.

a guide for using alternative media

Switching to alternative social media requires some strategizing, but the rewards are worth it.

The Sound Engagement Podcast

A recent conversation on Christian boldness in sea of passivity.

things to pray about pt. 1 (heroes)

Calling all protagonists.

Relationship Insights with Carrie Abbott

I was invited to discuss my recent contributions to The Stream with the delightful Carrie Abbott on her Seattle-based radio show.

three simple truths about breastfeeding

This conversation can be overwhelming. So let's keep it simple.

a note for put-together moms

We hear a lot about the "messy' mom, but what about the put-together mom?

2018: lost & found, part 3

I lost quite a few "friends" in 2018. Here's why.

2018: lost & found, part 2

When it came to writing, 2018 was a year of ups and downs.

three podcasts for the curious

My favorite podcasts at the moment.

I never write poetry

I don't write a lot of poetry, but I do own a couple berets.

The sweetness of doing nothing

I'm learning about the sweetness of doing nothing.

the war of art

How do we win the war against misery? This answer might surprise you.

seven meditations on my golden birthday

What I've learned after twenty-seven birthdays.

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